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W**E
Wonderful help on the road to Enlightenment
When we are fully awake and alive to the present moment, we don't need a personality. Sandra documents the fall into uncounsciousness most of us took between the ages of 3 and 6 where we built a personality. A personality is our way to fake it when we are not fully connected. She documents a way to see the personality as having 9 types. Each of these types hides an aspect of truth that we fail to experience. Each type is a way to fake being connected.Each Enneatype is therefore a way to spin reality, to make it look like we are not broken and lost. This work is so powerful it might cause you to break down and cry, because it will nail your way to avoid life. After you cry you will feel 'born again' with a fresh new look on life.I have read this book three times and sent 4 copies to my friends. Our local UU church here in Alabama has a 17 member study group meeting once a week, working through this wonderful book. The release of this book will be marked in history as a major event leading the Western Culture to the exploration of Enlightenment and the end of all sorrow.May you find Enlightenment as a personal experience.. Bill SavoieUpdate: 1/26/14 This book can be read more than three times. Yes, it is not an easy read, but the subject information is hard, so keep at it. Reread, like I do, a paragraph several times. The earth will shift in this way. The efforts you place in this book will not be wasted. At some point, it all makes so much sense, you just swim in an ongoing non-conceptual bliss. You can really let go of your personality and even better, not need to fix anyone who chooses to keep theirs. The value of that is priceless.
M**E
Landmark book written by foremost expert and teacher of Diamond Approach
Highly recommended for anyone wanting to venture beyond personality, beyond the surface.
J**E
Worth many readings
Maitri was one of the first group of students to whom the Chilean psychiatrist Claudio Naranjo presented the enneagram system in the United States. If you are already familiar with the nine personality types of the enneagram, this book will deepen your understanding. It is fun and fascinating to note how human beings fall into nine ways of relating to reality. It can also be useful in our encounters with ourselves and others to realize that we are not all motivated in the same ways. Maitri illuminates these aspects of personality and then goes on to show how each of us can move beyond an intellectual understanding of personality and beyond identification with our personality to a seeing of what our personality blinds us to, an ability to be onto oneself.A beginning point for everyone is bringing awareness to the body. Maitri says: "By bringing consciousness to our bodies, experiencing and fully allowing whatever sensations, emotions, and thoughts that arise within our consciousness, we move deeper into ourselves and start feeling more in contact with ourselves. This shift of focus from outer directedness to inner exploration in and of itself begins to take some of the wind out of the personality's sails. As we begin exploring the terrain within us, one of the first things that we typically encounter is our inner `shoulds' that come from our internal critic, the superego. This voice inside of us, which is the internalization of composite authority figures from childhood, was the final layer of the personality to develop, and so it is the first that we encounter. . . . One of the first orders of business on our inner journey, then, is learning to defend against the superego." Maitri continues to describe the process which leads to a shift in identity from our personality to our essential nature. This very interesting and wise book is worth many readings.
A**S
What a remarkable book
I was familiar with the Enneagram as a personality typing system, but this book cracked things WIDE open for me. Before, I saw personality types as just one more way to understand yourself and your quirks. Basically, personality was YOU. This book makes it clear that your personality is just a construct -- not actually you.Early on in this book, the author makes a great point about how sure: you can study your prison walls carefully and understand the materials thoroughly, but wouldn't it just be better to NOT BE IN A PRISON CELL? Your personality is that prison cell, and this book wants to help you see outside it. The theory is that if you understand the spiritual challenges that caused your personality/ego structures to build up in the particular ways they did, you have valuable information about how to work to dismantle those ego structures to better access your more authentic self -- the you behind the you you THINK is you.This book is filled with profound wisdom, and is hugely useful for both understanding yourself as well as the people around you. I found that it provided remarkable insights into why some kinds of folks just seem so bothersome! That said, I deeply appreciated the author's encouragement not to weaponize the book's information -- you could use these insights as a way to harshly attack people. For me, I found that once I understood the spiritual reasons behind certain personality quirks, I was then able to feel a lot more compassion for people. Things that used to seem sort of irritating about other folks, now strike me as both relatable and sad, now that I understand better what can cause the issues.This book is tremendous, and gives you SO MUCH food for thought. I am sure I will refer to it many times... that said, I'm knocking a star off for a couple reasons:1. The writing style is unnecessarily complex at times. I realize that the author is trying to convey a huge amount of information, but there were certain parts of the book (especially the introduction!) that felt almost intentionally complex. The more spiritual reading I do, the more I have come to appreciate writers who do NOT try to hide their concepts behind big words or complex sentence structures. (And I say that as a writer myself who loves big words!) It feels like the author really wants to make you work for your insights, which is fine I suppose... but it makes it hard to recommend the book to people who aren't as deep into personal development or psychology reading as I am. I'd like everyone to read this, but I know the writing style will turn people off!2. The repeated opaque references to The Diamond Method felt out of context and confusing. One minute we're talking about nine personality types, and then all of a sudden we're talking about pearls and yellow and what? If I wanted to read about The Diamond Method, I wouldn't have sought it out.3. I read the entire book (not just my type), and it started to feel like the spiritual guidance for the personality types was quite similar. It felt a little redundant at times. (Emptiness becomes spaciousness, etc.)4. Ug, Freudianism.I would love to read an updated edition... the book is almost 20 years old, and contains a lot of outdated cultural references. It's easy to just read around them, but the information contained in the book is SO POWERFUL that I'd love it to be updated and relevant to younger, more current readers.Anyway, I don't want my quibbles to be taken as disliking the book. I LOVED IT and it was one of the most powerful books I've read this year. For those who are willing to dig deep and look unflinchingly at their spiritual wounds in the hopes of attending to them and growing forward into a less ego-driven version of themselves, I HIGHLY recommend it!
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