DC Men's Gaveler Skate Shoe, 10.5 Black

If I wear size 8 women shoes then what would i be in men shoe size?

How are these compared to court Graffik style? Are they similar?

Is the size 14 is a wide fit? i am a woman and i know i have to go a size up in dc's, but is it the same for the mens?

Why has my order not shipped when I placed it 6 days ago?