Portfolio Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People

I liked this book. The ideas are insightfull, easy to memorize and helpfull. Recommended to improve your social skills and be more aware about how you act in public.

Quick delivery and as advertised

Not for me. Gave up half way through. Very 'corporate America' in tone - not necessarily a bad thing but it grates after a while. Long on waffle/anecdotes/self-promotion, short on anything to make me ponder.

This is a fantastic book on how to interact, behave and communicate in all sorts of situations, including at work; at networking events; in business; in relationships with spouses, partners, colleagues and friends; and even when dating or on dating sites.There are chapters on The First Five Minutes, The First Five Hours, and The First Five Days. Some of the useful information includes: starting conversations and making them "sparkle" and memorable for you and the other person; the importance of really listening (I wish there was a section on 'how to cope with people who don't listen and just talk about themselves none stop!); why "birds of a feature stick together"; making "raving introductions"; where to stand at networking events; how to hold your mobile; how to write dating messages; decoding facial expressions and microexpressions; how knowing different personality types can help your friendship and business. There are questionnaires throughout to get you thinking about these.A quick note - she is American and sometimes uses American Football or other American cultural analogies but only a few. I guess we British are bilingual!I've known Vanessa's work through her email newsletters for a few years and was looking forward to this book, and was obviously not disappointed - even pleasantly surprised how useful and informative it is. But the one thing that really surprised me was the cover. I know that she really put a lot of effort into designing the cover (with her face on it), but this UK edition has a drab boring cover that doesn't stand out at all - thanks to Penguin. So don't let that put you off it.This is a great reference book that I'll read again and again for tips and inspiration.

This is the first review I have EVER written, but Vanessa I enjoyed this book so so much. I have recommended it to all my friends, in fact they may just be getting it for Christmas this year.Also, I read this book in preparation for my first major conference. I am an introvert by definition and was feeling anxious about the event, but this book really changed everything for me. I went from "talking to people makes me anxious", to "who can I talk to next?" This book has changed my life. I can now see the value of networking and more importantly, I am now getting the value out of my networking sessions. Thank you thank you thank you Vanessa. I really can't say thank you enough for writing a book for "non-people" persons like me.P.S. I hope I get to meet you one day, so I can thank you in person.

I listened to Vanessa as a guest on a regular podcast I listen to and bought this book as she seemed incredibly talented, lovely and fascinating. It has far exceeded any of my expectations. It's incredibly well written, with a good flow of knowledge, case studies, research and personal experiences. The information I have learnt has been valuable in both my personal and professional life. In fact I re read the book leading up to an important job interview as I thought it would be the perfect preparation, making notes throughout. Turned out the interviewers must also have thought all the content made sense as I got the job into a heavily people oriented role. I'm extremely grateful for what I have learned through this book and couldn't recommend it enough!

I can't remember how or where I came across Vanessa's work. All I know is that I fell quickly in love with her behavioural research. Her advice and teachings are incredibly insightful. Captivate is no different. I devoured each case study and digestable tip. A fascinating book chock-block full of interesting information, systems and behaviour hacks that I cannot wait to implement into my life. (Side note: I wasn't looking for it but this surprisingly it helped me navigate a toxic environment during my recovery from complex trauma. And getting a score of 130 on EQ test was healing for the soul when often my emotions/how I saw the world was gaslit. So, thank you truly Vanessa, if you ever read this review.) Captivate kindled a spark inside me onto a slightly obsessive path learning about behavioural psychology. 😂🙈 What a dream it must be though, to work on the frontier of the Science of People research lab! Looking forward to reading more from Vanessa & her lab in the future.