On Balance

Amusing essays, but with some shallow psychological claims scattered between more interesting reflections on just what "balance" means.

The world and society being what they are, omnipresent and all-encompassing, they are the default leaders of our lives. Engraved on the subway walls at 42nd and Sixth in New York City are the words of C G Jung: 'Nature must not win the game, but she cannot lose.' About a century ago while Jung was preparing a lecture tour in America, his companion said, 'Don't they realize we are bringing them the plague?' His companion was the star of Phillips's book, Sigmund Freud.A child psychoanalyst and literary critic, Phillips probes deeply into the human malaise; if you say, What malaise?, this book is not for you. He comes up with the odd remark often, such as, We travel to protect ourselves from the possibility of arriving, or The quest for knowledge would seem to be about dispelling desire: "Tell me who you desire and I will tell you who you are." What humanity as a whole apparently desires however is of a magnitude infinitely greater. On the front page of today's New York Times, seed money of $500,000 is being offered to study what it would take to send humans to another star, a challenge so daunting the study alone could take a hundred years, at which time we will all be dead.On Balance was my vacation book this year, a kind of ballast against the euphoria, but it would not be the kind of thing I'd want on my private island; I'd want something like a mixture of Zen and Christianity, music above all, and a bottle of wine. I'd leave the great Chinese poets at their rest. May I add how startled I was to read on page 286 how insufficient are all the helps and glories of human civilization, never fully adequate to our needs and desires. "Human nature, without divine redemption, is a disillusionment that cannot be borne." In writing about W H Auden, Phillips says that unredeemed human nature had become unbearable to him. He is not alone in this assessment.You may also wish to read the fairly positive review in the current New York Review of Books, and may I point out the admiring comment of Judith Shulevitz in her review of All About Love in the August 14 New York Times Book Review: she calls Phillips "an accomplished aphorist who hovers over the pages like an interrupting angel." Lastly, Phillips has a place in the Joys of Secularism, an anthology just published and reviewed by James Wood in the current New Yorker.

This is my second foray into Mr Phillips' writing, and it felt like I had stumbled into a his study as he answered his mail, listened to his colleagues' messages appreciatively, perused a stack of poetry books, waiting for his edits and comments, and then, after a restorative nap and hastily recorded accounting of our respective dreams, he read aloud to his young grandchild a collection of fairy tales, with sidebar observations for my benefit. His intellect and his interests are wide ranging, and he writes at a level beyond my poor ability to absorb it all, but accessibly enough that I am stretched and provoked. This is not self help, and not psychobabble, and not muscle flexing for is own sake.The reader feels he is writing to clarify and perfect his own point of view, as much as the reader's, and he has a capacity for wonder, erudition and history that approaches Emerson, who he has been favorably compared to. There is a gracefulness in the way he gets to the heart of his point, and a lack of judgment or pedantry. Many of his illustrative points were AHA moments for me, which will keep me on the lookout for other things he has written.

What a great book- it's the right combo of intelligent, interesting and witty. Perfect for anyone who wants a thought-provoking, well-written dip into the dizzying topic of balance. Just when I felt like the content was a bit heady at times, the author balanced things out (sorry, pun intended) with totally accessible language. I never knew that references to Freud could be so immensely readable.After reading this book I want to read more from Adam Phillips!

I don't know almost nothing about neurology, but I have read or plan to read every word Oliver Sacks wrote. I feel the same about Adam Phillips. I know next to nothing about Freud or psychoanalysis, but I am happy to read about it by someone who writes so beautifully. If you like Oliver Sacks or Alain De Botton, you may like Adam Phillips.

I have not received this book yet, but the author was profiled in "Health and Wellness" magazine which is a Martha Stewart product. After looking up the Author on Amazon, he has been writing for sometime on similar topics of which I was primarily unaware. Seems like "On Balance" is a good place to start!

I read about this book on the blog "Brain Pickings". It's very good, but I gave it a lower score because it sometimes became repetitive. That said, the premise is viable, and an important read for over-achievers.

Wow, had to read this for a class, ended up falling in love with it. I'll be keeping this one around for sure! Fast shipping, and the book was in perfect condition! Thanks so much! !

It is new one thats amazing

Someone suggested to me recently, whilst discussing my own frustration with the author's writing style and his less than accessible - nae impenetrable - prose, that the constant interjection of contemplative and supplementary explanatory thoughts by way of dashes - whether literary nougats or jarring asides of self-relection in almost every other sentence* - amount to not much more than masturbatory delight in the pleasing of himself with his "witty wordplay".Like a Clapton guitar solo or a Neil Peart drum routine, why use 5 notes when 150 will do?It was also drawn to my attention that the author is more thought of and admired by the high-brow literari than his psychoanalytic professional peers.But who am I to judge?I recognise that I am just not clever enough to take in the author's work in this instance and perhaps therefore I feel bereft and excluded from topics that a far better writer would be able to articulate more effectively with grace, wit, warmth and layman-friendly clarity.* Before I get shot in response - see what I did there, intentionally, with irony.

As usual Adam Phillips delivers a fascinating, interesting meal of a book to be devoured with relish.

good book, thoughtful

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